Elder Home Share Dublin: When Mum Says “No”… How to Talk to an Elderly Parent About Home Sharing

If you’re reading this, you may be worried about your elderly mum or dad living alone in Dublin — especially at night — and you’re wondering how to introduce the idea of home sharing .And if your parent’s first reaction is “Absolutely not – I don’t want a stranger in my home!”, you’re not alone.

Most seniors say no at first. But with time, reassurance, and gentle conversation, many come around to the idea — especially when safety, security, and companionship become more important.

Why “No” Is Normal

Home sharing can feel like a big step for an elderly parent. The thought of inviting someone into their home may raise fears about privacy, independence, or change.

But in our experience at Elder Home Share, initial resistance is completely natural — and usually temporary. Many older people need time to let the idea settle.

A few tips that often help:

• Keep the conversation light and pressure-free

• Give the idea time to sink in – weeks or even months

• Let a trusted voice introduce the idea, such as the family GP

• Bring it up again when circumstances change, such as during darker evenings or after a small worry or fall

If your parent has said a firm “no”, stepping back is often the best approach. The idea can be reintroduced gently later on, when they may be more open.

Why Families in Dublin Choose Elder Home Share

For most families we speak with, the number-one concern is night-time safety .Companionship and reducing loneliness come a very close second.

Sharing some of these benefits with your elderly parent can help them understand that a home-share companion isn’t “a stranger” — but a potential support, friend, and reassuring presence.

“Knowing your parent has company and safety at home — that’s the gift of Elder Home Share.”

Top Benefits of Having a Home-Share Companion for Your Elderly Parent

1. Reassurance and Security at Night

Knowing someone is in the home brings enormous peace of mind — both for your parent and for you. A companion’s presence alone helps reduce fears of intruders, unusual noises, or being alone during the night.

2. Immediate Help in an Emergency

If your mum or dad were to fall, feel unwell, or become disorientated during the night, a home-share companion can respond quickly — whether by offering help or calling emergency services immediately.

3. Quick Response to Alarms or Disturbances

Smoke alarms, carbon monoxide detectors, or house alarms can be frightening for a senior living alone. A companion can check what’s happening, manage the situation, and ensure the right help is contacted.

4. Day-to-Day Companionship

Loneliness is one of the biggest challenges for older adults living alone. A home-share companion offers conversation, company, and a gentle social routine — all while your parent maintains their independence.

Helping Your Parent Visualise the Idea

Many older adults feel reassured once they can see who their potential companion might be rather than imagining a faceless “stranger.”

Showing your mum or dad some of our Companion Profiles can make the idea far more real and far less intimidating. These introductions often become ice-breakers and help reduce anxiety.

Is Home Sharing Right for Your Parent?

Home sharing isn’t suitable for every situation — and that’s okay. But for many families in Dublin, it becomes a safe, affordable, and emotionally supportive way to help an elderly parent stay in their own home for longer.

If you’d like to talk through your parent’s situation, or simply explore whether a home-share match might help, I’m always happy to chat.

Learn More

• Visit our Homeowner FAQ to understand how Elder Home Share works

• Browse our Companion Profiles with your parent to ease their concerns

• Or reach out directly for a friendly, no-pressure conversation

You don’t have to navigate this alone — and neither does your mum or dad.